College life consists of study,love and future.Undoutedly, we should put our study first,second future,third love.However, many students especially girls have reversed the order,love first,in their mind.All the things they know and care is their love.In my opinion,they not only waste their times,but also their parents'' money,even their golden youth.They stake their future on their current love.That''s the most unwise things they do.

The best and idealest choice you make is that you can balance the relationship between your love and your study.Although you fall in love,you should still persist your own character,your own dream .You can''t completely listen to your lover,if you do that,you''ll lose yourself,you''ll become a person who has no thoughts,no dream,and no yourself any more.So you can study together with your lover and communicate each other''s thoughts and dreams.

For all the above mentionged,it is especially written for girls.Be yourself in love and achieve your dream in future.

I have to say you must be a experienced lover, and I'm fully agree you wrote. Most lovers lose themselvs, not girls only, boys do same things. To make the other happy, he/she gives up their own opions.That's absolutely stupid. So, remember one point: BE YOURSILF!

don't care more!! young person have nothing but youth.Actually,you don't mind the result and,you do it what you like.In fact,love is blind.there are many things you must do it in the whole world.yeah,each thing get the result whatefer it is good or not,and you must face it.I don't know whether you can resolve it,but at least we share the process.That's pretty good!!

don't care more!! young person have nothing but youth.Actually,you don't mind the result and,you do it what you like.In fact,love is blind.there are many things you must do it in the whole world.yeah,each thing get the result whatefer it is good or not,and you must face it.I don't know whether you can resolve it,but at least we share the process.That's pretty good!!

To love and be loved is such a pleasant feeling, an intense longing that everyone, young or aged, yearns for and a temptation that no one can easily withstand.

However, a wise person would make a clever choice when facing love since youth is so easily slipped by without anyone else's awareness. It is the best life period for young people to lay the solid groundwork for their future careers. So my idea is do not waste time and try to improve ourselves till we are perfect enough to match a dearly beloved when times is mature.

[此贴子已经被作者于2005-9-27 10:05:32编辑过]

What is love ? yes ,jeannie is right .you can love when time is mature.but I think that may be one side of a corn .you know,every body is different .some people have a strang willpower.they can contal themselves.maybe they can balance the study and love at the same time .and the other I think should have to make a decision