how to deal with it

It`s one common phenomenon, one of your friends asked you why not find your snow white in college campus .
Maybe you replied there was no suitable one , but your friend didnt think so , maybe they regarded you as one pefectionist .
Because in their eyes you should have one ,and they took that for granted .Sometimes we would feel a bit embarrassed,having one
girlfriend or boyfriend is very common in our modern college campus.So how do we deal with it ?About this word "perfectionist", which I ofen
thought of too much.Once I chatted with one of my friends in our MSN in english , accidently he said he was one perfectionist, to my surprise,
however I thought of this too much , i hadnt brought out this word with others . Right !!!In a way one perfectionist is hard to get a long well,
as me such one people suffered this too much . Most of the time loneness surround them , disintegrated , and hard to understand. So how to deal with that ,you know ?